all i can say is marrie your GF.
after the honeymoon you get the best gift of all.
rip her father a new ******* with no fear of losing her.

right now she is so wraped around his finger any thing you do
will come back to bite you in the *** hard.

 

Be careful...that's dangerous territory. I know from experience!

Regardless of your opinion, that is still her father. You don't want to create a situation where she has to choose between you or him.

 

I know, but if he makes her cry one more time, Him and I are going to have a little chat ...

 

That sucks. When i get ready to say my piece, i usually write a letter or a bulleted outline. I study it and look for ways they can come up with a rebuttle, then cover those points. You cant sit there and chew on his *** if he hasnt (assuming) showed any aggression towards you.

I used to get into it with my ex-gfs parents. We were cool towards the beginning. Me and my dad even took him hunting. She was 19 and she didnt have a car and they relied on me to be her personal taxi service. They were always a PITA! I freaking hated all of their little bullshit. Her dad was my boss. I remember one time, her dad called me over the intercom to his office and started tearing my *** for something stupid and meaningless. He was screaming at me and i stood up with my fists clinched and screamed back over his desk that he was a ******* idiot and a worthless father and that if he wanted to throw down, he was gonna end up in the hospital. Im a small guy but his goofy *** was gonna hurt. He apologized to me but we were never the same since.

 

since i dont feel like typing for 2 hours and having 5 posts for all this..ill just some it up to if you knew my girl friends family you would think she would have been arrested for drugs, drink every night, get several minor in possessions, have several dui's, wreck her car drunk and almost killed two people, be suicidal, get knocked up and have an abortion, get into drugs again, get knocked up again, run a trucking company into the ground, not pay taxes, cheat on every guy she was with, ***** around with half her class, have affairs, threatend to kill people..but nope..she was the one that had to take care of this fucked up family..she was the one that caught up several years of taxes that were never booked for their trucking company..she takes care of her sisters baby..she was a manager of a pizza place at 16 and now she makes more money than i do and i work in the oil field, shes the one that got approved our $60,000 house at the age of 19..

 

im there with you on the psychological and physical portion, i was lucky that i learned from my dads mistakes and wont make the same ones and i have a mom who cares....my fiances dad did some "wrong" acts that have caused our relationship to suffer BAD and messed her up emotionally!!! now we are both going to counseling because of it, thats why i cant stand her dad and i have never met or talked to the man......what he did in my opinion is unexcusable!!!

 

Black... I'm sorry that this is all happening to yall. Obviously Daddy doesn't understand family. and what a shame. Maybe it's time that your Gf and her sister should enstill a little tough love on Daddy.

 

i didn't read all this words that were on my screen but as for the title of the thread, yea i hate my wifes whole family. i hate a few other people too.