I mean ive seen it all some live the good life which is great for some but this made me think why did she flip out? why? things were good never saw it coming and worst part is she said she was in a time frame WOW, then people keep telling me to go ahead smh damn whats the big deal? why the pressure? lol thanks guys i needed to hear what you guys thought

 

my wife gave me several deadlines while we were dating. i just ignored them and she never held up her promise to leave if i didnt propose by x/x/xx. i drug her along for 8 or 9 years and bought a house with her before proposing so i guess it was sorta due.

 

Well yours was there, mine walked out saying she has a date line and she'll get to her goal one way or another

 

laugh and say good luck hitting a bs goal.

 

i did but it just makes me think i dodge a bullit never seen that side of her

 

Unfortunately women think they are on a timeclock and if they are not married and having kids by such and such age that they will miss there mark. So when they get in there mid to late 20's they get real ancie. I agree with others, in that it does not get easier after your married. So if there's any doubt whatso ever dont do it. If you get to the point with a woman that you can't see your life with anyone else then go for it.


Also get to know her mom very well and ask your self if thats who you would want to be with in your 50's

 

Good info here. How old is she? I can see a woman wanting to start a family because they do have a clock ticking. Pressuring a guy to make the move is not the way to do it at all though. She will realize all she has to do to get her way is to pressure you, and you will fold.

If it feels right go for it, if it doesnt, dont. Better yet ask your best friend or family to tell you. Generally your best friend or family will have an honest opinion for your best interest, and may not voice it in fear of offending you. It is hard to think of everyone's qualities when you are having sex with her. The male body has a brain and a *****, but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

I'm 37 and may be with the right one now. If I am not, the right one may eventually show up, maybe not. I was engaged, and called it off 7 weeks before the wedding. It was the best move of my life. You are real young and have plenty of life left, don't feel that you have to jump into anything.

 

I dated my wife of 5 years for 6 years before asking her to marry me..She NEVER asked me once if I was going to..I beleive Marriage is more than a piece of paper IF you are doing with the right person, at the right time..But I do agree the Gov't will eventually turn it into a piece of paper , and not a Holy union between a Man & Woman. And I also see why most people view it as such...Others have mentioned the good/bad..and NOT using it to solve ANY problems...As it usually will create new ones that become more serious now that you cant "see other people for awhile..lol

 

+1 I don't see the difference. I have been married for a little over a year.

 

Been with my wife for almost 8 years now, married for a little over 2 of that... The first couple years it honestly wasn anything real serious. She's 26, I'm almost 29 and just found out were knocked up. It's all about timing and what feels right. Chances are, if it kinda "feels" like things are falling into place then chances are they are so go for it. If the **** feels forced, it'll always feel forced and you'll never be happy most likely.

LET it happen, dont MAKE it happen...

If she's putting you on a time-line, tell her *** to put that **** on someone else... And things will happen as they should.